I don't know if any of you have had this problem, but it is really irritating me the longer we go on being IF. Twice in this year, we have had someone in our family freaking steal baby names that we were thinking of. Yes, yes, I know, we don't even have a baby yet, but come on! We've been planning for 4 years and we've carefully thought these things out. And, then, bam, someone has # 3 or 4, and willy nilly nabs our carefully thought of name out of the sky. Ugh! And yes, we could still use the name, I guess, if we wanted, but everyone in the family will think of the first kid as the "real" one. I feel like George from Seinfeld when he thought of "Seven" and his friends stole it. I know how you feel, George!